6 Explosive Adult Toys for Beginners

If you have never known the joy of plastic, silicone, injection moulding, and what happens when you combine it all with a little whirring motor… you’re in for a treat! For those who have never experienced adult toys, it can be a strange and unusual world. Start small – here we look at some of the best toys for beginners.

Lubes and lotions

If you’ve never used a sex toy, it’s also highly possible you’ve never experienced the joy of lubricant… which makes everything that you’ve done dozens of times before magically feel heaps better! Go for cheap and easily available water-based lube, long-lasting silicone, or exotic warming and cooling lotions. Just make sure you use ‘protection’ for your


You know where your most powerful sexual organ is located… between your ears. And no, it isn’t your nose! Lingerie can help you see yourself, or your partner, in a different light, and is a gentle introduction to toys.

Cyberskin Toys

If you’re new to the idea of using things other than human bits in your playtime, Cyberskin is a fantastic way to start. It has an ultra-realistic feel, and isn’t necessarily as intimidating as glittery purple plastic!

Egg and Bullet Vibrators

These tiny little gems of joy are discreet and easy to use. Because egg and bullet toys are so small, they fit right in with whatever you’d usually do – just adding a little buzz to the experience. Most have varying speed levels built in… and if you’re into the ‘shared secret’ experience, you can also get remote control vibrating knickers or insertable eggs, which your partner can turn on and off at will while you’re out in public.

Cock rings

For guys that haven’t had much experience with sex toys, cock rings can be a great place to start. Choose a cock-only ring to start with, as opposed to a cock-and-balls ring. Cock rings will help you last a little longer and get more pumped up.

Dildo Vibrators

These toys combine the best of both worlds, both standard and vibrating stimulation. If you want to buy your first toy to last, choose a vibrating dildo!

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Gay Children: Myths and Facts

There are myths and facts about gay children that we must know before we yield to homophobic ideas. This is for parents who struggle to understand and accept, and to children who cry out to be understood and accepted.

Russell loves pink, baking cookies, and Ariel of “The Little Mermaid.” He talks in a gentle high-pitched voice and has a frail build. He always plays with Maya, his favorite doll. His best friend is Bea whose hair he loves to comb and his worst enemy is Josh, the class bully whom he pinches when fed up with his bullying. “Could he be gay?” teachers ask. Russell’s mom asked me the same question. No one knows for sure. Psychology doesn’t provide all the answers to this ticklish issue. But as a teacher of young children, I had to observe, record my observations, ask my child development mentors and colleagues, talk to gay friends and surf the net. Before parents yield to homophobic ideas, let us rethink our notions of homosexuality in children.

Myth 1: An effeminate boy or a boyish girl will turn out gay.

Fact: This does not happen all of the time. An effeminate boy or boyish girl may grow up heterosexual, be in a committed heterosexual relationship and have children. Similarly, a boy of brusque stature or a ladylike girl may grow up homosexual, be in a same-sex relationship and have children. A common mistake parents and teachers make is stereotyping children in relation to their gender. Pink is for girls, blue is for boys; dolls are for girls, toy guns and robots are for boys; baking is for girls, gardening is for boys. Whatever the gender, children need to develop into well-rounded individuals with well-balanced feminine and masculine sides.

Myth 2: Since being gay originates from environmental factors, one can choose not to be gay.

Fact: It has not been established if homosexuality is caused by environmental or biological factors. One way of understanding human behavior is considering both biological and environmental factors coming into play in a child’s development particularly in the critical early years. Human development is very complex to enable us to pinpoint where the effects of biological factors end and where environmental factors begin. From personal accounts of gays, they knew they were different from their kindergarten years but could not yet identify if they were straight, lesbian, gay or bisexual until they grew older. A genetic predisposition to homosexuality, by its definition, can result in being gay or in not being gay. Children’s gender identity confusion is either eased or aggravated primarily by the quality of their physical and social environment. Whichever way they turn out as adults (straight or gay) constitutes a sexual identity that has been synthesized through time and will be hard, if not impossible, to change. Those who take a hard stance that homosexuality is a choice usually fail to fill in the missing link of how a gay’s life is lived between childhood and adulthood. Everyone tends to see the adult and not the child.

Myth 3: Gay children will grow up unhappy adults.

Fact: Parents fear their child will be a lonely social outcast or get AIDS in no time. But there are many gays living happy and successful lives in their chosen professions and status. Being straight is not always a guarantee for happiness. Of course, life for gays would be a lot easier in families and societies that are more accepting of gays and gay relationships. UNAIDS has also carried the torch for the gay community which has been at the forefront of the global fight against AIDS, now seen not just as an issue of disease but an issue of justice, dignity and human rights for gays.

Myth 4: Parents have no clue that their child is gay

Fact: Between the mother and father, a mother often has some idea of the truth since she is more emotionally attuned to her child. She is also more likely to come to terms with the truth faster than the father though the confirmation may come as a very emotional moment bordering on shock and disdain. When the moment of truth arrives, the following tools will come in handy-love, patience, understanding, open-mindedness and faith-to understand things that may seem beyond understanding.

Myth 5: It is wise to tell parents right away about being gay.

Fact: Most children take years coming to terms with their own sexuality. It is a very difficult process and some may never really come to terms with themselves. But when they come out, they have seriously thought it through and do it not to reject or spite their parents but to be honest to themselves and their loved ones. The right time to do it is very important. If parents are conservative and will most likely turn violent when they find out such as kicking children out of the home, it is best for the child to keep quiet for a while. A 25-year old colleague of mine had to be confined for psychiatric treatment after confessing to his father, a police officer, that he was gay. His father pointed a gun at him while ordering him to pack his bags and leave the house. Parents also need time and support to come to terms with this reality. But in the end, their unconditional love for their children wins out and the truth sets everyone free.

In a world that does not fully understand homosexuality, there is no room for prejudice most especially where children are concerned. For parents and children still at sea, it is good to remember the words of Oscar Wilde: “Ordinary riches can be stolen, real riches cannot. In your soul are infinitely precious things that cannot be taken from you.”

Gay Male Sex Toys

Regardless of whether you are new or experienced in the use of male gay sex toys, there are numerous adult products available specifically targeted at the homosexual male in today’s marketplace. Some male sex toys such as the cock ring, even though this is by no means an adult toy exclusive to the gay male market, has been around since as far back as 1200 when it was first used by the Jin and Song dynasties by the Chinese, whereas the Fleshjack brand of Fleshlight male masturbators was launched specifically for gay men in 2007.

Gay Sex Toys for the Inexperienced Male

Products tailored more towards the beginner in homosexual male adult toys include items such as male sex toy starter kits. These kits are a relatively inexpensive way of trying out a whole host of male-specific products and consist of adult sex toys such as penis pumps, butt plugs and cock rings. A butt plug, also known as an anal plug, is also a firm favourite within the gay male community as it stimulates the anal passage. Anal beads also fall into this category. The majority of anal bead strings feature beads that graduate in size the further you go up the string meaning that the user can insert as many beads as they feel comfortable with. Many also come with a hand grip for easy release. Butt plugs are available in a variety of lengths and girths depending upon what level you are at. Some anal plugs are available as anal training kits and usually comprise of three different sizes of butt plugs. A cock ring is commonly employed by men of all sexual orientations to enhance and prolong the quality of an erection by restricting the blood flow to the penis.

Traditional Sex Toys for Gay Men

Sex pumps temporarily help to enhance the length, girth and hardness of the manhood by creating a vacuum in the cylinder which causes extra blood to rush to the penis. Male sex dolls feature vibrating and non-vibrating erect cocks, deep anuses and inviting mouths for endless possibilities. Dildos with balls and realistic vein and penis head detailing also are also popular. For the more experienced gay male, anal vibrators and vibrating butt plugs provide variable speed manipulation for the anal passageway. Anal plugs with ridges either part of or all the way along the length of the shaft also provide supplementary anal stimulation. Vibrating cock rings facilitate a similar reaction but for the penis. A pleasure wand is a double ended device that massages the scrotum and balls with one end whilst the other end sends stimulating vibrations to the anus/prostate. Male g-spot stimulators pivot to massage the g-spot deep inside the anus generating an incredibly intense orgasm.

Male Masturbators

Male Masturbators are another popular male sex toy for all male sexual orientations although male masturbators do not just come in the form of false vaginas and masturbation sleeves. In today’s marketplace several male masturbators cater specifically for gay men. They include vibrating anuses and tubes that have openings in them in the form of an anus. The most popular of the gay male masturbators available are the range of Fleshjacks. A member of the Fleshlight family (a new kind of masturbation tube), Fleshjacks not only feature the characteristic real-skin feeling within the tubes but the openings come in the form of butts and anuses while some of their inner sleeves replicate the insides of an anal passageway making it the most realistic penetrative feeling from a male masturbator.

The most important thing to consider whether new or experienced in the use of gay male sex toys is that the anus does not produce any natural lubrication so it is imperative that an anal lubricant is used to make penetration a much more pleasant and easier experience.

The Advantages of Silicone Adult Toys

What is silicone? What makes silicone sex toys different from other adult toys available on the market? Silicone is a non active manufactured compound that has a similar feel to rubber and is heat resistant. It’s free from phthalates (substances added to plastics to make them longer lasting and more flexible) which are thought to harbour chemicals which may result in mutagenic and carcinogenic effects on the skin. Some less expensive sex toys in the adult marketplace still contain phthalates which could or could not cause harm to the skin.

Silicone Adult Toy Advantages

Silicone sex toys are usually made from superior quality medical grade silicone which is used in medical applications as well. Medical grade silicone is perfectly suited to the making of adult toys because it is strong and tough. Silicone toys for adults also have many other plus points when compared with less expensive alternatives. As previously stated, they do not have phthalates in them. They also have the quality of being silky smooth to the touch and are soft enough to be inserted easily but rigid enough to retain their shape and hence provide real satisfaction. Silicone adult toys are also odourless, tasteless, hypoallergenic, anti allergic, waterproof (therefore easy to clean) and non toxic. Their durable properties also allow them to be heated up, cooled down and even washed in the dishwasher! A number of toys for adults made from silicone come with the added benefit of having some flexibility meaning they can be made into different shapes bringing about an easier way to target your sweet spot.

Silicone Sex Toy Brands

There are a number of brands that famous for their assortment of silicone sex toys. Fun Factory Sex Toys are so uniquely styled that they have achieved awards for their innovative designs. Their high quality products include male sex toys, clit massagers, vaginal balls, anal sex toys and strapless strap ons. Tantus Sex Toys are also renowned for their original designs and quality products which are on the whole made up of vibrators and dildos that are suited for anal or vaginal pleasures, and butt plugs. The majority of their colourful adult toys have flared bases which makes them compatible for harness use.

How Much Can You Expect to Pay For Silicone Adult Toys

As with all high quality items sex toys made from silicone do retail at a higher cost than cheaper alternatives with a number of silicone adult toys having a recommended retail price of up to £100. Nonetheless it is possible to also get a good quality silicone vibrator, dildo or anal toy for around £20. It’s well worth paying the initial outlay if you reflect that while some cheaper adult toys could only last a few years, silicone adult toys are durable enough to keep going for a considerable number of years to come. The fact that they can be warmed or cooled (increasing the array of sensations you can experience) and are also waterproof are more advantages.

Gay Teen Myths and The Negative Influence Myths Have on Child Development

Poor parenting causes homosexuality

Parenting does not have an effect on sexual orientation. All the theories about overprotective mothers are myths because 90% of children with overprotective mothers are straight. This correlates with the general theory about the percentage of gay people in the population. Putting pressure on parents by stating that they caused their child’s sexuality can have a devastating effect on the family and it can ruin a child’s mental development.

Teens still have a choice in sexual orientation

Nobody has a choice in sexual orientation whether you are sixteen or sixty. You are born either straight or gay and it is never based on a choice. It is true that teens might not yet know what their orientation is or might be unsure, but that doesn’t mean that they can change it. Telling teens that they have a choice can only damage this frail stage of human development.

Homosexuality is a mental disorder

No official psychological association sees homosexuality as a disorder, but by treating a gay teen as if he/she has a disorder you could give him/her emotional and self-esteem problems.

Therapy can cure a homosexual teen

Since homosexuality isn’t a disorder it follows that it can’t be treated. Trying to treat it with quasi-psychology is nothing else than child-abuse.

If a teen feels attracted to someone of the same-sex he/she is gay

Before sexual orientation is settled a child might feel attracted to somebody of the same-sex. This is at the stage where the line between a romantic relationship and friendship is still a bit fuzzy. Parents will do more harm by overacting if a friendship seems too strong between members of the same-sex. Often we as parents are the ones with dirty minds while the children are just playing.

Adult gay people can recruit or change teens to become homosexual

It stands to reason that if being gay isn’t a choice that somebody would not be able to change you. People are born straight or gay and all the recruitment in the world can’t change a teen’s sexual orientation.

Gay parents will cause their children to become gay as well.

Since nobody and no therapy can change your sexual orientation it should also be clear that parenting can’t change a teen’s orientation. If this myth was true it should mean that straight parents would not have gay children.

Gay teen suicide happens because of gay relationships

According to a few websites it has been proven in Australia that teen gay suicides are caused by gay relationships and not by homophobia or family rejection. In the first place research can not prove anything. The only way to prove something is to go through every single gay teen suicide on the planet; the mentioned research only looked into 22 cases. Secondly suicides are caused by depression and depression is caused by a mixture of natural and nurtured aspects. The debate between nature and nurture has been going on for centuries and we are not sure whether nature (aspects you are born with) or nurture (things that happens with you) plays the biggest role. The idea that any research can pinpoint the exact universal cause of teen gay suicide is therefor ludicrous. What we can say is that more stress can make depression worse and lead to suicide. Both family rejection and a failed relationship can play a part in giving a teen more stress. It isn’t a question of one or the other. Both will play a role in causing stress that can ultimately lead to a suicide attempt.

Teen gay-boys have the largest risk of contracting HIV

According to statistics straight women are the fastest growing section of HIV positive people in the population. If that is to be taken serious it just follows that straight girls should be at risk

These days it is fashionable for teens to be gay.

Again this is a stereotype that can only survive if you believe that being gay is a choice. The fact is that no responsible psychological scientist believes that anymore. At most we can say that homophobia has become unfashionable and therefor there are more teens that feel comfortable to live outside the closet.

Should Gays Be Allowed to Marry?

Marriage is more than a piece of paper. It confers numerous benefits, such as health, disability and life insurance, pension funds and tax refunds for spouses. Many gay couples desire to marry and partake in these benefits but have been denied this right because of their sexuality and that is not fair. According to some individuals, America is the greatest country in the world. It is supposedly filled with opportunities for everyone, not just financially but an opportunity to be free from judgement. This is not true. Everyday, millions of people are denied a right many take for granted. Gay couples in most states cannot marry because it is illegal to marry someone of the same sex and that is not fair.

Marriage is a legal commitment between two consenting adults. It is about sharing, love, trust, and legal status. Two adults who make this private personal choice to form a life-long commitment should not be denied the right to marry just because their sexual orientation. It is illegal to discriminate against gays seeking employment, education or housing. Gays keep communities safe as firefighters and police officers, staff hospitals, and pay taxes. Denying gay couples the right to legally marry takes away their legal rights in receiving employee benefits, government benefits, and other benefits that heterosexual couples enjoy.

A person’s sexuality should not be an obstacle to whether he or she wants to marry someone. A gay person has the same needs and desires as a heterosexual individual. The only difference is the way he or she has sex. If two individuals fall in love and wants the same economic advantages that marriage offers heterosexual couples, they should not be denied that right based on their sexuality.

Although American society denies the right to marriage to gays, it glorifies heterosexuals who make a mockery out of marriage by marrying and divorcing a succession of partners. This practice is called “Serial Monogamy” and it is sickening and very hypocritical of American society to stand judgment on gays for their lifestyles but sanctions heterosexuals who do not have good judgment or morals. Most people who are opposed to gay marriage often bring up the Bible, saying that the Bible does not condone the gay lifestyle and that marriage is strictly between a man and woman.

However, these same individuals are often involved in extra-marital affairs, are cohabitating without the benefit of marriage or are gay themselves, hiding behind pious words of morality. Gays are just like anyone else and they deserve to partake in the economic advantages that marriage has to offer. Instead of denying the right to marriage to gays, American society should concentrate on fixing the widening economic gap between the wealthy and the poor and figuring out why American society is the laughing stock of the world.

Same Sex Parenting and Your Child’s New Best Friend

Finding children with same sex parents studying alongside your own these days is not an unusual occurrence. However the prevalence of this trend does seem to be stirring up some debate.

The primary concerns that seem to be voiced by parents of heterosexual parents is that of whether the children of same sex parents will have an ‘unhealthy’ effect on their children? Will such children and their parents influence another child’s gender preference? Will such children demonstrate uncommon violent behavior? Are the children of same sex parents emotionally stable? Will children of same sex parents bring issues such as drug dependence and social disorder into the school environment?

The question therefore is ‘are children of same sex parents ‘suitable’ friends for your children’?

Whilst the questions is a prevalent one today there is, in fact, little conclusive data available on the success of same sex parenting. It would seem that there have actually been relatively very few studies and most of the studies that have been carried out are considered not relevant due to non-conforming study conditions, e.g. one study compared children who had lived initially in heterosexual relationships to children who had always lived with same sex parents. Furthermore most of the studies that have been carried out have been done so by groups who have a vested interest in the results and therefore the results are contradictory. Finally there seems to be very little up to date information (e.g. new information for 2008 / 2009) and little data available that is derived from the United States. This lack of information is also surprising when you consider how much emphasis is placed by politicians and organizations about the emotional impact of single parent families on children.

The fact that there is so little study data originating from the United States is particularly surprising when you consider that same sex parents are considered to be such an established group in today’s American society. Whilst yet again the data seems to be in need of refreshing and most dates back to the ‘2000 U.S. Census'; The Child Welfare Information Gateway suggests that 8 – 10 million children are being raised in the United States by people who consider themselves to be homosexual. The 2000 U. S. Census also stated that, 33% of female, same-sex couple households and 22% of male, same-sex couple households reported at least one child under the age of 18 living in the home.

Even with such little date available there are still proponents of both sides of the argument. One such argument is presented in a report from January 2004, entitled ‘Homosexual Parenting: Is It Time For Change’, prepared by the American College of Pediatricians, whose mission is supposedly “to enable all children to reach their optimal, physical and emotional health and well-being.”

The report stated that there is sound evidence that children exposed to the homosexual lifestyle may be at increased risk for emotional, mental, and even physical harm and that violence among homosexual partners is two to three times more common than among married heterosexual couples. It further stated that children reared in homosexual households are more likely to experience sexual confusion, practice homosexual behavior, and engage in sexual experimentation. Adolescents and young adults who adopt the homosexual lifestyle, like their adult counterparts, are at increased risk of mental health problems, including major depression, anxiety disorder, conduct disorder, substance dependence, and especially attempts at suicide.

Professor Bradley P. Hayton in his ‘To Marry or Not: The Legalization of Marriage and Adoption of Homosexual Couples’ agreed with much of the above report and went on to state that “Homosexuals… model a poor view of marriage to children. They are taught by example and belief that marital relationships are transitory and mostly sexual in nature”.

Bradley apparently also thought that same sex parents were detrimental to children because apparently male homosexuals have a significantly reduced life expectancy; children will experience difficulties in the area of sexual identity and be influenced in sexual orientation and gender role behavior.

However those on the other side of the argument, including sociologists Judith Stacey and Timothy Biblarz in the ‘American Sociological Review in 2001′ suggested that from 21 studies of children that they were aware of, children raised by homosexual parents were no more likely to suffer from psychological problems than kids raised in heterosexual homes. In fact, as Stacey concluded “there was a very strong consensus that kids turned out about the same,” and ultimately, these findings were generally endorsed by the American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Medical Association, the American Psychological Association and other mainstream organizations.

Charlotte Patterson author of ‘Children of Lesbian and Gay Parents’, has gone on to state that sexual identities, including gender identity, gender-role behavior, and sexual orientation, develop in much the same way among children of Lesbian mothers as they do among children of heterosexual parents.

Studies of other aspects of personal development, including personality, self-concept, and conduct, similarly reveal few differences between children of same sex partners and children of heterosexual parents.

Perhaps William Meezan and Johnathan Rouch, who are openly gay authors that advocate same sex marriage summed the whole situation up best in their paper ‘Gay Marriage, Same-Sex Parenting, and America’s Children’ published in 2005 when they stated that “the effects of same-sex marriage on children is a question that cannot be settled by any amount of armchair theorizing!” They went on to state that “there are plausible arguments on all sides of the issue, and as yet there is no evidence sufficient to settle them… The costs and benefits of same-sex marriage and child rearing cannot be weighed if it cannot be tried-and, preferably, compared with other alternatives.”

Perhaps to the above is the most conclusive comment on the subject at the moment and the reality is that only time will tell.

If research proves anything then there is indeed a need for some definitive studies following large numbers of children over a lengthy period of time but in the meantime unless there is ever substantive and conclusive evidence to suggest otherwise then it is up to the individual parent to make the best decision for their own child.

However, in making those decisions one should remember that we are the ‘care-takers’ of the next generation – surely it is imperative that we teach all children, irrespective of the ethnicity; culture; skin color; religion or sexual preference to behave towards others in a considerate, kind and just manner in much the same way as I am sure we would wish them to behave towards our children.

Adult Toys – Uses and Care

There can be no denying that when it comes to sex, nothing beats the real thing. However, one cannot also ignore the popularity of several sex toys and the continued introduction of newer models to satisfy a demanding market. This market is growing and as such we should pay attention to how people integrate these items into their sex lives. You should be aware that sex toys can also be used to enhance your sex lives and bring you and your partner to a new level of closeness and intimacy.

Loosely defined, sex toys are devices meant to pleasure the user sexually, usually used on erogenous parts of the body. There are a lot of sex toys available in specialty shops and through the internet, though most condom retailers are offering a product called the vibrating ring.

Probably the most common and most popular sex toy is the vibrator. Majority of its users are women, and most admitted to curiosity as the primary reason for initial usage. Though some prefer to use vibrators in private, it can also be used with a partner. For heterosexuals, vibrators can be handy when the guy comes off too fast. It can also be a part of your foreplay, to arouse you and your partner to greater heights. In instances when the vibrator is shared, as in lesbian couples, slip a condom over it before inserting into the vagina and put a new one before handing it to your partner. Make sure that it is also properly cleaned before storing.

Dildos are also quite popular among the ladies, as they mimic the shape, texture, and size of a real penis, though they require considerably more effort than battery operated or rechargeable vibrators. Again, it would do some good if you slip on a condom over it before using, especially among lesbians who use it to pleasure their partners. And even if you are using it alone to masturbate, a condom would still be advisable unless you are pretty sure your storage place is totally devoid of germs and other irritants.

There is also one recently introduced product that is fast gaining a loyal following, the vibrating ring. It is a device that is slipped on the penis, and over a condom, and is used to enhance the pleasure of both partners. The vibrating ring has a small battery within the rubber casing. Women who have tried it claim of achieving multiple orgasms through the use of vibrating ring. And the best part of this is that men can take part of the action, too. A vibrating ring is known to extend the erection of the penis. It also has bumps and raised surfaces for heightened pleasure. And because it is stretchable, a vibrating ring can accommodate any size of penis. Vibrating ring users also revel in the fact that this device is portable, easily concealed and thus can be carried almost anywhere.

Though the use of sex toys to achieve self-gratification is an effective method of birth control, don’t think it will turn you away from the pleasure of real, consensual sex. With the availability of contraceptives and protective devices such as condoms and pill, sex is and will always remain to be life’s most enjoyable activity. However, there is still no denying that dildos, vibrators, and the vibrating ring afford much pleasure to their users and will continue to enjoy great popularity.

The Top 7 Foods to Serve at an Adult Toy Party

Many different things have to be taken into consideration when it comes to planning an adult toy party. From displaying the merchandise to coming up with a series of fun and ice-breaking games to play, it’s important to cover all of your bases. If there’s one thing that you don’t want to overlook, it’s food. Having the right food can help make your party a smashing success. Below, you’ll find seven great foods to serve at adult toy parties.

Fruit Trays – Why should everyone who attends your party feel guilty about the fattening foods that they eat? By offering a fruit tray, you’ll give people a healthy option. Besides, there’s always some sort of delicious fruit in season. Serve with a special dip, or all alone!

Veggie Trays – Like fruit trays, veggie trays are healthy and flavourful ways to enhance the food choices at your adult party. Who doesn’t love carrots, celery, cherry tomatoes and other neat treats? Sliced up veggies are the perfect finger foods, and they’re definite crowd-pleasers as well. When artfully arranged, a veggie tray can actually brighten up a room, too!

Chocolate-Covered Strawberries – There is something undeniably decadent about chocolate-covered strawberries, which is why they are perfect for an adult party. Make sure to use high-quality chocolate to ensure a tasty treat.

Tortilla Chips and Salsa – If you have a knack for cooking, why not whip up some delicious homemade salsa? You could make mild, medium and spicy versions so that there’s something for everyone. Serve it up with some fresh tortilla chips and everyone is sure to love it!

Cheese and Crackers – Another foolproof combination is cheese and crackers. Invest in a variety of high-quality cheeses; choose a mixture of hard cheeses and soft cheeses to create a well-rounded selection. Make sure to offer several different types of crackers, too, so that people can come up with the combinations that are right for them. Few people will turn up their noses at cheese and crackers – it is a can’t-miss party idea.

Chicken Wings – Amid all of the fruits, veggies and cheeses, it’s smart to offer something from the meat category. Chicken wings are natural choices when it comes to party finger foods, since they are small and easy to nibble on. One caveat: Be sure to provide moist towelettes, especially if you serve barbecue chicken wings.

Kabobs – Finally, stuff skewers full of steak, chicken and a variety of different veggies to create mouth-watering kabobs. The guests at your party won’t be able to keep their hands off of these tasty treats – and they couldn’t be easier to prepare! It’s just one more way to add a dose of sophistication to your get-together.

What to Expect at Your First Adult Toy Party

Since they’ve become so incredibly popular, adult parties – especially ones that feature toys and other products – are being attended by more women than ever. If you’ve been thinking about going to one, but have held off because you just don’t know what to expect, you can get a basic idea by reading through the information below. Chances are, you’ll find that today’s adult toy parties are a whole lot different than you’d think.

It’s All About Fun

Firstly, although adult toys are often the main premise for throwing an adult party, the real reason that so many women enjoy these get togethers so much is because they are a lot of fun. Getting together with a lot of other women, nibbling on delicious appetizers and sipping on champagnes or cocktails are all a huge part of the allure of these parties. Being social is the main point of adult parties, so if you like being around other people and having a good time, you’re bound to have a blast.

Let the Games Begin!

No two adult parties are alike, but games are usually a part of the festivities. These games help those in attendance loosen up a bit, and allow them to get acquainted with one another. Usually, they are very silly and don’t involve any actual competition. The end result of the typical adult toy party game is a whole lot of laughter – especially when a decent amount of alcohol is flowing.

The Main Event

Once the games are through and everyone has had a chance to enjoy some food and drinks, the hostess of the adult party will usually unveil the toys that are for sale. Most of the time, she will have a special table set up, and will present them one by one. This way, women can ask questions as needed and can even handle the merchandise if they’d like to. Although there are many different party ideas for adults, the toys are always going to make an appearance at these parties. After all, they are the inspiration for adult toy parties!

Bring Home Something Fun

Even if you walk into an adult toy party feeling reticent, nervous or reluctant about making any purchases, after all of the ice breaking and festivities, you may end up bringing something fun home with you. There is usually a broad array of products for sale, from relatively tame ones to more risque choices. Remember to keep an open mind, and try to get into the spirit of things. This is a prime opportunity to learn more about adult toys without having to walk into a strange store, so don’t be afraid to pick something out and bring it home!


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